I'm giving it a try, but my 1% translucent TGA shows up as 100% black when I apply the skin. I've noticed that a lot of skins have this problem with titlebar buttons. Is this a Win2k thing, or is there something else I need to do to make it work (like a plugin or setting)?
One thing I've been able to do is specify a solid image to place behind the titlebar text (which makes the window 100% grippable there) but that isn't all that great a solution. Just for kicks I also experimented with setting the button as "Shape layer" but I don't know what that does (it shows up as 100% opaque when I do that). Basically I want to add to the toolbar's shape but not draw anything extra, or like you said, alpha-blend a 1% overlay but I don't know if Win2k can do that.
Just for kicks, last night I experimented with animating two different title bars, where one is out of phase with the other (has the opposite cross-hatch dither). It works, but it's S-L-O-W...