I don't even know if there is a solution, but I find this to be so frustrating. Here's what happens (and this is just one example of the problem)
I have a fence for business, and within that fence I have a "QuickBooks 2018" icon. If I launch that application, it obviously selects the icon first before it launches the app. Ok, so I do what I need to, close out of QuickBooks and I'm back on my desktop.
Now let's say I create a new folder on my desktop and name it "My New Folder". After I type it in, it names it "My New Folder (1)" - WHY??!? Because the QuickBooks icon was also still "selected" within fence, so it named the QucikBooks icon "My New Folder" and the actual new folder on the desktop "My New Folder (1)" ...
So it seems with fences you can have multiple icons/folders selected on your desktop which causes problems when renaming them.
What's the easiest solution?