You have illustrated the problem well. There are at least 3 its.
1. IT - Almost exclusively "Information Technology". However some idiot screwed up because of his/her bloody ego and now also an audio file format used by those wankers Impulse Tracker.
2. .it - The domain name for Italy: A boot shaped European appendage (a.k.a. peninsula) inhabited by a group of people who for some bizarre reason prefer to speak Italian more than English. This is possibly due to eating too much pasta, parmesan cheese, and/or tomatoes, but this isn't certain. It could equally be the mozzarella cheese or other thing with all sorts of redundant consonants.
3. It - Third person pronoun denoting an inanimate object, idea or one without gender, capitalized when at the beginning of a sentence or after a colon: Like paper, rocks, and (ahem) unfortunately you. Well look, you're the one whose 'lap' disappeared...and that's where it's located.
4. "It" is also the word used by college/Uni freshmen (almost exclusively) instead of the word 'intercourse'. An example might be helpful (for one whose lap 'disappears'): "After doing it, Jim and Bessie dozed off." For some odd reason people also seem to widen their eyes and open their mouths when saying 'it' in this context.