Unfortunately, that is how it is.  

I wrote something the other day "I think my sports team should do X" and the anonymous responder countered "well thinking isn't your strong suit".   And that's it.  As if this person knows me from Adam for one thing so how would he be able to form an opinion of my thinking?   Also what happened to rational disagreement if you think the sports team should do Y?  Where's your argument?   There is none.

People easily say things like "Bob hates puppies".  In this day and age,  the burden of proof would be on Bob to clear his name.  This is ridiculous.  If Bob didn't know about this and it gets repeated a few times, people just accept it since they heard it from person A and person B even if original source was just made up.  Also if Bob had found out someone had slandered his love of puppies, people might tend to disbelieve his refutation that no he doesn't hate puppies.   The public tends to assume some kind of kernel of truth in it.

It's all too easy these days to be attacked once you put yourself out there. And Haters gonna hate.

I'm not sure if the internet has anything to do with it. Haters are everywhere. 

At my first job during my orientation I had a manager tell me to start building my reputation early. 6 years later this same manager attempted to smear my reputation. His x-wife was my best friend and they had a messy breakup. I was let go after 6 years of employment, I did not question why, I basically grabbed my things and never looked back.

I ran into my former general manager, who had just transferred when he was my boss an has since moved on to another restaurant. He just stopped by the table, when I was out with my wife, and apologized. I told him it wasn't a big deal I was a crappy server anyways I was super introverted at the time and used to get anxious talking to people. I know brilliant job choice.

So he explained the reason he let me go. Apparently the manager that day had told him that I stood in the front of the house and cussed him out in front of the customers. For the record I rarely cuss unless I'm being silly. Anyways, he said one of the regulars and complained. So he let me go. A few weeks later this regular came in and asked where I was. The GM told him about his supposed complaint. This started an investigation and it turned out the MOD lied and was trying to get rid of me, his x-wife was my best friend. We did not get along and he kept trying to throw me under the bus. 

The ending of this story is beautiful. My firing was the best thing that happened to me. I was too comfortable at the time in the restaurant industry. I had a degree in computer programming that wasn't going anywhere because I did not try to find a job. Because of him got a job doing tech support and tripled my salary. Also through one of my coworkers I met my wife who is also a gamer.

Yeah, the days were we gamers were outcast of society and before it went mainstream.

Ah....so it's YOUR fault then....

malicious does not mean not true.  It means hurtful.

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   characterized by malice; intending or intended to do harm

true smeagolheart, oops

You will be hated. There nothing you can really do to render yourself immune to being hated. There will always be someone who will have a reason (or find one) to hate you.

You could be black and be hated by whites. You could be white and be hated by all those the white race has exploited and abused. You could be American and be hated by Muslim terrorist. You could be Muslim and be hated by Christians. You could be Jewish and be hated by Christians because you refuse to accept Christ as your savior. You could be rich and be hated by the poor. You could be poor and be considered one of the riff raft by the elite. You could be successful and be hated by those who don't even try. You could be born rich and be hated by those born poor. You could be hated because you are an Athiest because some people assume you must be denying the existence God because you want to sin. You could be hated because you have a different opinion than someone else. You could be hated because you made one little mistake and someone can't let that problem go and blows it way out of proportion. I can go on and on about this.

Its one of those things I try to keep an eye on and learn about. Not everyone thinks the same way you do. It can be hard for people to understand that people think differently than you do. This means that people can do things for reasons that you wouldn't consider to be good, or even consider at all.

I thought that talking about motive might be relevant to this discussion. If not, I can reconsider what I talk about.