First off congratulations! As for the comment by bakerstreet : “Stay out of strip bars, and don't think you can just take her and make it alright.” Not true my wife took me to my first one, took me to several and that is no joke. As for words of wisdom I am undoubtedly the last person you should listen to as for most people have told me as I have grown up that I run a fine line between genius and insanity more so the ladder. Remember the feeling you get when you are pronounced man and wife never forget it and take a moment to use that from the first time you get upset and every time there after. Remember the saying of the pickle jar, if you were to fill it up with rocks is it full? Then pour in smaller stones, is it full now? Then pour in sand, is it full now? The pickle jar being your life the large stones being your family and all the things that go with that, the smaller stones being work, money, your house, and the sand being every thing else if you fill up the jar with the smaller stones and sand and with no room for the large stones and our world as we know it crashed, no computers, money, work, and so forth you would be left with nothing. And if you find yourself in the corner and not sure what to do talk to your true friends they will let you know when your being stupid. Well there is more I could say but this is getting to long for a message board and this may sound like a load of mushy crap to most but its not I spent my life growing up on the sideline watching people live until I met my wife she showed me how to live.