josephbp,
Hi. I don't work for Stardock, nor do I represent it. So, please take what I say as those of any other Community member.
Nothing is wrong in what you've posted, nor have you asked for anything unreasonable.
Brad Wardell (frogboy) who is the owner and CEO of Stardock just wrote a very welcome article about Object Desktop 2012, Here's the link to it:
https://forums.wincustomize.com/411679
Object Dock 2, not being a part of ODNT wasn't covered specifically but in general, since selling Impulse, a good deal of intensive and manpower draining work has been eliminated.
It wouldn't surprise me if OD2 got some love as well, although I do have to say I've been looking for a solution to a few of the same problems that you noted in your OP. I also know you're looking for a more authoritative response than this one.
On Tuesday, when folks filter back into the slave quarters office, I can try to ask about OD2. I know that isn't going to satisfy you fully, but it's really as much as I can commit to doing.
I hope this helps you, if only a bit. Also hope you're enjoying the holiday weekend. 