I don’t like creating friends lists.
I also don’t like having to remember a bunch of different logons but that’s not nearly as annoying as having to deal with multiple “social networks”.
The good news is that in another couple of years, it won’t matter. Your virtual you will be one entity rather than having it all divided up amongst Twitter, Facebook, MySpace, Live, Impulse, Gmail, Steam, AOL IM, whatever. The reason: Federated IDs.
Here’s how it works: User enters in their UserID and PW for a service that supports federated IDs. It then talks to all the other services you belong to that also support federated IDs and gathers up your “friends” list, achievements, status updates, etc. and puts them together.
So you can picture logging into Impulse with your Live ID or Facebook ID or what have you and have it use your Facebook friends that also have Impulse and so forth.
Right now, Facebook is, not surprisingly, leading the charge. Between them and Twitter, an embryonic federated ID system is already in place. And because of them, others will follow suit – are following suit because not supporting such a system puts those who try to keep their ID system proprietary and closed will be at a significant disadvantage.
Federated IDs are win-win-win: Mutually beneficial for social networks and beneficial to users as well.