Hey I'm getting more than a little pissed off at coments made like the ones in #2 /#3 comments.
I can see where you are coming from, but I think both posts are actually trying to be helpful. We communicate so much with tone when we are face to face and when it's missing (like in a forum post) there is a chanve that we are reading more or less into what is typed.
In all things try to follow my mantra: "Just be cool. It's all good" 
