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Goodbye Mr Hyde...............

March 20, 2008 2:54:40 AM from WinCustomize ForumsWinCustomize Forums

Dear Everyone here at this community....

 

Last year I reckon i acted like a real mr hyde, i let my darker side get my betters and to be pretty frank, i was just obnoxious, rude, a boat rocker and just a plain ass......

 

From this year, its going to be different, I want to be a posative role model for wincustomize and stardock.  My goal is to

always put a posative comment forward, hold back silly and daft ideas and comments, keep peace and just be helpful to everyone possible.

 

I hope everyone who i may have offended last year can forgive my disgressions, and turn the page with me and start afresh..  I know this post is probably completley unecessary, but I would just like everyone to know what I am doing.

Its time for me to become a better Jekyll   

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Fuzzy Logic
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Reply #1 March 20, 2008 4:11:33 AM
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A cute and cuddly kitty? Dunno about that, I kinda like a bit of rough...  

It's interesting that a lot of the more senior members here didn't start out how they might have hoped. It shows first impressions are not always right and people can change.

I think a lot of it is to do with feeling a part of a community. Once you make that transition all of a sudden things don't look so bad, you feel a part of things instead of an outsider and want to join in, instead of being critical. It's a natural progression most people go through, whether it is here or at any other site.

It's a great feeling, to feel a part of something, and an even better feeling to make that something better for others    

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Reply #2 March 20, 2008 4:24:36 AM
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Your a rockin' Kitty - love your work
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Reply #3 March 20, 2008 4:26:08 AM
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Does that mean pink fluffy windowblinds from now on?
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Reply #4 March 20, 2008 4:34:13 AM
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I didn't feel a thing!

No biggy here Kitty! If you feel you need to be forgiven for what ever it was...consider yourself forgiven, your absolved, say 3 hail mary's...now go to bed and forget all about it I've seen far worse...uh...what was it now that you did? I forgot!

And finally...be positive...but above all...be yourself. Would be a pretty dull place if we all sang the same tune. Someone needs to rock the boat from time to time. And for some gods sake.....don't conform! Long live the revolution!

OK...I'm done now.
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Reply #5 March 20, 2008 4:46:11 AM
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I agree with WebGizmos a 100 %!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don`t see what you have done wrong at all!!!!

I have always liked you a lot because you say what you think no matter if the others like it or not, you never kissed ass and whats most important you got personality!!!!!!!
Please stay that way!!!!!
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Reply #6 March 20, 2008 6:21:36 AM
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It's interesting that a lot of the more senior members here didn't start out how they might have hoped. It shows first impressions are not always right and people can change.
I think a lot of it is to do with feeling a part of a community. Once you make that transition all of a sudden things don't look so bad, you feel a part of things instead of an outsider and want to join in, instead of being critical. It's a natural progression most people go through, whether it is here or at any other site.


Well said.
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Reply #7 March 20, 2008 7:01:49 AM
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Oh yeah......and what Fuzzy said too!
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Reply #8 March 20, 2008 7:58:51 AM
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kitty, what ever you said and did (or think you said and did) in the past IS JUST THAT....in the past.

From one bipolar person to another....IT"S ALL IN YOUR HEAD!!!! I usually don't go spouting about the power of positive thinking, but in this case...it works.
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Reply #9 March 20, 2008 8:51:29 AM
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Every once in a while I'll fo back in this and other forums (and newsgroups) to see who I was then.
All I can say it "thank you everyone for not banning me" and thank God we are able to grow"

Thanks for posting this kitty.  It takes a big cat. 
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Reply #10 March 20, 2008 8:56:45 AM
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and to be pretty frank,

Geez....enough of the name changing....please....

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Reply #11 March 20, 2008 10:46:42 AM
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pretty frank,


To be quite frank, Frank ain't that pretty... got a head on him like a sack of hammers.
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Reply #12 March 20, 2008 2:27:00 PM
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Hmmm, if you are bi-polar, shouldn't you be frank and earnest?

  

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Reply #13 March 20, 2008 2:42:48 PM
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Coming here is like going to High School. There are favorites. There are cliques. This is the truth. How to cope? Be yourself and don't kiss ass. You have done that so don't give in to fit in.
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Reply #14 March 20, 2008 4:24:36 PM
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thanks for everyones kind comments..........it means alot to me.
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Reply #15 March 20, 2008 4:35:43 PM
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Coming here is like going to High School. There are favorites. There are cliques. This is the truth.


I used to think similiar things but after awhile, I got comfy with the whole crowd and realized it was very far from the truth.
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Reply #16 March 20, 2008 4:59:37 PM
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Later hyde.. Jekyll.. nothing left but the doing   
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Reply #17 March 20, 2008 5:22:09 PM
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hold back silly and daft ideas and comments


Kittymalone,
Please don't , that's what makes this place fun, is reading the silly ideas and daft behavior inbetween the important stuff.

sometimes ya just gotta cut loose.

and for a cat, I gotta say I don't mind you at all (VvvV) (too bad they didn't make a new smiley for the wulfn grin.... that'd have been cool.)
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Reply #18 March 20, 2008 6:21:15 PM
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All I know is, say what you want. If you keep making skins like you do, I'm all yours, honey.
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Reply #19 March 20, 2008 9:30:43 PM
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just be helpful to everyone possible.


You already have been. I've been following some of the threads you posted lately and have learned a few things right along with you. Thank you.   
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Reply #20 March 21, 2008 2:10:19 AM
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Coming here is like going to High School. There are favorites. There are cliques. This is the truth.

I used to think similiar things but after awhile, I got comfy with the whole crowd and realized it was very far from the truth.


I disagree NT, what I said ain't too far from the truth. I feel comfy here or I wouldn't come here but that is not my point. Being comfortable with a certain group of people does not mean that you have to change to fit in with them. What I am saying to Kitty is that she is very cool as she is and only she can define that coolness. She shouldn't let others define who she is.


From this year, its going to be different, I want to be a posative role model for wincustomize and stardock. My goal is to

always put a posative comment forward, hold back silly and daft ideas and comments, keep peace and just be helpful to everyone possible.


That is politically correct but I've never seen you say anything that was bad and I read this shit all the time. Don't change because you feel you'll fit in better. Please.
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Reply #21 March 21, 2008 2:27:39 AM
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Kitty if you'd a started out mean and nasty like me you'd not have to explain yourself or anything else...ever...never...or whatever. People'd just say you're being yourself ... that old, mean, nasty watch a ma call it.      
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Reply #22 March 21, 2008 2:37:25 AM
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Don't worry, Kitty. I've married (and been left by) MUCH worse.  
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