Darlene,
You can unload DesktopX and then clear the cache to force DesktopX to start with the default settings at any time.
I wrote a mini tutorial outlining the procedure for clearing the cache for some of the Stardock programs which use this function - you can read it here http://corkyo.wincustomize.com/Articles.aspx?SID=5463&AID=82461
After clearing the cache (delete the DesktopX cache folder), you can restart your computer and should be able to manually start DesktopX to work from the default settings.
As for the system tray icons, if you have either/or both MCP options enabled in Stardock Central - you can try disabling them. This may clear up the system tray icon issue for Norton products. To disable, use the following:
Start Stardock Central > go to Tools menu > select Settings > deselect both "Enable MCP notification area support" and "Enable MCP SmartStartup" options > click "OK" > reboot machine.
Note - the "MCP notification area support" is required for any of the following "System Tray" functions:
- DesktopX themes which incorporate "System Tray" functions
- System Tray docks in ObjectDock Plus
If you are not clear on whether a DesktopX theme needs the process, just run it to see if all parts function correctly. You can always re-enable the process.
I have noticed that the MCP notification area support seems to prevent the Norton system tray icons upon occasion, so this may help.
Note - your hanging DesktopX issues when loading the theme may be due to the script blocking feature in Norton. If you lose the taskbar, make sure to look in the Taskbar and Start Menu properties to see if the "Auto-hide the taskbar" option has been selected by the DesktopX theme - some do this, and do not deselect upon unloading.
FYI - you can always call up the Start menu and Taskbar by hitting the "Windows Logo" key on any modern keyboard, which will allow you to get to the Control Panel to work with the properties, etc.