There is a bit of a roller coaster ride involved with the software, updates, and setting things up the way you want them.
Basically, we are pretty much playing around on the cutting edge, so temporary set backs (fits of displeasure, if you will) - seem to be part of the ride.
I find myself being grateful that IconPackager (official releases) and ObjectDock (official releases) are solid and always useful on my system. This helps when the "Luna" shell is used to fall back on during any disagreement with other programs.
To answer your question:
"You are not alone....."