IndigoRoses,
You may be running into an issue with Theme Manager that seems to appear intermittently.
First, start by making sure the Object Desktop programs are all installed correctly (for a review on this procedure, you can go here http://corkyo.wincustomize.com/Articles.aspx?SID=5463&AID=83625
2 - Make sure all the installed programs will start by clicking their icons in the Start>All Programs menu.
3 - Download content files using the method described here http://corkyo.wincustomize.com/Articles.aspx?SID=5463&AID=82563 - this is not the only way, but will allow you to download the files with the original extension intact.
4 - Download a ".suite" file from the Suites library using above method, and then double-click to apply.
5 - If you still have issues, you can manually apply these suites by changing the ".suite" extension to ".zip", and extracting the contents.
6 - After extracting the contents, you will either have a preview image, perhaps an icon, and a "WinStyles.ini" file - or you will have a preview image, perhaps an icon, and a "WinStyles.ini" file, and a few folders which contain the skin files for the various programs.
7 - For the files with just the preview, icon, and WinStyles.ini file, you can open the WinStyles.ini file and look under the [Files] entry > copy the address after the "PROGRAM NAME =" listing > Paste into the address bar of your Internet Browser > hit Enter > download should start automatically.
8 - After downloading files, you can double-click to apply, or place them in the correct sub-directory depending on the file type that downloaded.
9 - For the ".suite" file that contains the skin folders, you can just copy or move those to the correct sub-directory.
10 - In both methods listed in #7 & #9, you would start the individual programs after installing the skins, and apply.
Sorry that I do not have a better fix for the Theme Manager isssue. Hopefully someone else will drop by with an easier solution.
Note - you can click my name to go to my page, and you will see a list of the current mini tutorials I have posted, which should help you understand the programs a bit better from a basic file structure point of view.