Stumpy... As the grayhaze post was made less than 24 hours previously, and was made sticky almost immediately (not sure when since I wasn't here when posted), I think I can understand how it may have been missed.
As a regular visitor here, I confess that I routinely skip right past the stickies because they often don't change or add anything new in a meaningful way - it's mostly either "Good post", "Thank You", or "Me, too," comments beyond the initial post. Which begs the question in my mind of the utility of stickies beyond a convenient place to link to in answering an oft repeated question. Unfortunately, I can't offer a good alternative suggestion beyond updating the FAQ page(s), which I know is easier said than done.
KarmaGirl... As for the skinning discussion board, the use of that board is very streaky. By that I mean, sometimes questions there will get an immediate response, but quite often, one can literally go for days without an answer. I used to visit that board everyday, but unless there is a specific post that interests me, I, like many others I suspect, only go back now once every few days because there is so little activity on that board. I truly wish this board was used more, but again, I'm not sure how to change this.
As for your suggestion on discussions prior to uploading/moderation, I think that it is potentially a good idea, if it could be shifted to another forum than the general board, and if there was some type of mechanism for making it work without a ton of spam and troll comments. pictoratus comment that it is common practice among skinners to check each others skins is true, I suspect, among established skinners who e-mail things back and forth. I haven't seen much evidence of it as a mentoring/development process for newbies, who are among the most common "Why was my wall...?" thread posters.
And in the end, if we can't figure out a better way to do it, we'd simply trade "Why was it rejected?" threads for "Please check my wall so I can upload." threads.
P.S. Not to mention the bandwidth increase for all those "in-progress" screenshots.
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