Helen, I am not a Admin but, nothing is wrong and I lived with a 27 year old Greek Woman when I was 18 and in the service so I doubt there is anything you could do that would be too much for my taste's though this is a family site at it's root so a semblance of propriety must be observed, that in mind be yourself
Nothing is wrong, all that happened is that on the message board as a existing post sits in it's position it is moved down the list when a new post is submitted or an existing post is updated, they rotate working their way from the top down by update timing. So your posts did not go anywhere except down farther in the list...
no worries
