Orion....there's no 'double standard' at all. I believe that even the lovely Miss Chinacat [she of the fonts] had been requested to 'cool it' at one stage.

The only difference is that an old-timer [sorry, China....] may at times 'push' the limits, but the 'noob' has no understanding/experience of those limits and will readily cross the line, as is evidenced by the number of posts that are deleted from time to time, nearly all are from new visitors to the site, even though the 'older member' may post infinitely more, and more frequently too.

To conclude also....nothing in China's post was objectionable, insulting, or obscene.....[gosh....even the spelling was OK]...

Hashonboat....to some, "for God's sake" might be construed as blaspheming. It is often a case of relativity and perception.

Perhaps we should simply leave any and every thread and post unaltered......then compare notes as to what is the appropriate level for proper censorship.

It's a fair bet that at 14 a young person, male or female will know exactly what a 'penis' is and also the reference to 'strap on'.

A reasonable reality-check can always be had with a quick visit to Deviantart.com where the average age is probably quite close to 14.....for a taste of relative language and behaviour....