Gosh, what an incredible amount of forgiveness. Is this a community or what? Is this a place only to jump at people who think they are in their right? I can understand he is upset. I can understand he withdraws his work. I can also understand he comes back later and share his work again. What I can't understand is people who are deliberately hurting a person because he is upset. That's actually very very unfriendy. I too speak for myself, and I think it is time for people who jump and bash and slash in this community to go into therapy or something. What's the point anyway? I would welcome him if he comes back. This community needs skins and a lot of aromatherapy.

Lecrayon wrote: " What I can't understand is people who are deliberately hurting a person because he is upset."

Pardon me...I'm not sure we are read the same thread. He behaved like a jerk, tried to twist people's words, thumbed his nose at the person he asked for help from (Jafo) then he took his toys and went home when nobody would agree with him. He's upset? Awwww poor little thing....Good.

Lecrayon wrote: "I would welcome him if he comes back. This community needs skins and a lot of aromatherapy."

I would welcome him back too...if he would like to behave like a mature individual...maybe even admit or apologize for his behavior.

Davad70 wrote: "The standard has now been set for mature and responsible behavior. If you can't follow Orion's example of maturity and tact, then you probably don't belong here."

Thanks...I was really waiting for your blessing of my opinion and the recognition of my behavior...I'm glad you're with me...

davad70 wrote: "there have been maybe 30 or so who have chosen to go on the attack against Zodiaq."

Now Zodiaq is the victim?!!!???! Man! I had it all wrong...I saw it wrong...my bad...I'm sorry I wrote what I wrote...NOT!

fact is, both sides are wrong. Once Zodiaq was told he was wrong, he should have accepted the opinion he was given, the one he had asked for, instead of saying, oh, no it wasn't your opinion I wanted, your not good enough.

On the other hand, the rest of us should have seen the whole thing for what it was, and been the mature resposible adults we'd all like to think we are and just ignored him when he started his temper tantrum (myself included).

No one's a victim here, except maybe of our own immaturity.

I definitely am not one who feels the need for peace at any price. I just wish people would start minding their own business and act like adults. I'm also not saying that I think Zodiaq was in the right. If he would have asked for my opinion I would have given it, but he didn't, he asked Jafo. Therefore I chose not to give my 2 cents, until this thread became the usual let's all pile on someone. So he didn't agree with Jafo...so what? Jafo has been disagreed with before and he ended up ok, he's a big boy. He doesn't need everyone's back up.

Case is closed, he was wrong and won't accept it, his problem.
Time to move on.