Hello,
Sorry to hear you are having trouble.
RDP affects how Aero work on a PC when an outside PC is connected (degrades or shuts it down entirely). You can set RDP to have a maximum number of monitors with the settings in the link below which affects if Aero or Desktop composition will enable:
https://technet.microsoft.com/en-us/library/dd834779(v=ws.11).aspx
(Desktop composition or Aero Glass will not be enabled at the remote desktop client if the client is using multiple monitors. Desktop composition is only enabled if the remote desktop client is using a single monitor.)
Short of that resolving the issue, try experimenting with these options:
http://sd.stardock.com/sean/JingImages/2015-02-26_1737.png
http://sd.stardock.com/sean/JingImages/2015-02-26_1738.png
Or restoring a snapshot when you return to the PC:
http://sd.stardock.com/sean/JingImages/2015-02-26_1738_001.png
You also want this checked in Fences:

That said, 'named' (your created ones, not auto) snapshots are the best way to get a configuration back to the way it was with that option enabled.
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Sean Drohan
Stardock Customer Service Manager