"and will be a serious detriment to any possibility of me going to an Ivy league college like my father."
OMG, does that sound familiar
I don't know how to say this nicely, so please accept my apology if I offend.
You ARE NOT YOUR FATHER!!! When parents put this kind of pressure on a kid it can totally screw them up.
Please, MrGupps, be the person YOU want to be, not some fantasy of your parents. If YOU want to go to an Ivy league school, fine. If you don't....don't. It's not worth it. The toll to your sanity will be high.