That -is- the problem with forums like this, or the Stardock newsgroups. They -are- where people who are having problems go, after all! So, naturally, you get to see all of the nasty horror stories and problems, and they seem like they outnumber the few good stories that you hear.
More than any other Stardock programs, I use Windowblinds (have been since like, version 1.x or something - though only as a registered user for the past year or so?) CursorXP and IconPackager. With the exception of the current alphas of Windowblinds 4, none of them has ever given me a /single/ problem or heartache, I'm happy to say! And I fully realize the current build of WB that I'm using is an Alpha - so quirks and problems are expected!
For a time, I've even used DesktopX and ObjectBar - and aside from a few idiosyncracies, I can also say that neither of them has given me so much as a problem too.
I've said it before, and I'll say it again. The money I spent on Object Desktop (and my Wincusto sub, and CursorXP, etc. etc.) is the best money I've spent on my PC.