Yup - I haven't been around for a day or so - silly me, I decided to upgrade from KDE 3.0.4 to KDE 3.1 on my SuSE install...
What a nightmare! I've come to the conclusion that not only do I -despise- kpackage (SuSE's own software manager doesn't allow installing from any non-NFS locations) but in the future, anything with -devel on the end, no matter how obscure, is getting installed at installation. Gah!