I must state for the record that the widow of the murdered WSJ journalist, Mariane Pearl (a journalist herself), is much stronger than I thought a person in her situation could ever be. I have enclosed a link to a public statement issued by her below:
http://asia.cnn.com/2002/WORLD/asiapcf/south/02/22/pearl.wife.statement/
It seems to me that she is advocating something much higher than mere revenge, which in her case is really incredible and commendable in the highest.