I remember watching the Wedding Singer and Adam Sandler's character tells a story about how he knew that hsi girlfriend wasn't really the right person for him because when they flew over the grand canyon, his girlfriend didn't switch seats so he could see it even though she had seen it before.

Now, for those of you who are married or in long term relationships with someone, what is something that your SO has done that was so kind, so thoughtful that you knew they were the one?

I want to share something that my wonderful wife, Debbie has been doing recently. As some of you may have noticed...I stay up late. Usually working/hobby (my job is my hobby so it's hard to say where one stops and the other starts). But when I go to bed, I really like to read to get my mind "formated" so that I'm not thinking about work or whatevre. But that requires a reading lamp and the light keeps my wife up.

So I had been going in the other room since I didn't want to keep her up (and then would go to bed when I was done quietly to keep from waking her). But recently, she's begun going to bed with my reading lamp on specifically so she can get used to falling asleep with that light on. I never said a word to her, I would never think to ask her to do something like that. But isn't that wonderful? I am a lucky man.