thanks guys i think i solved it i change a icon then then click save icon package it works fine that way before i changed a few then click save
which screwed up icons all over computer i just wanted to save the layout so i can revert back to it without going threw changing again but saving after every change of a icon works i like icon packager too maybe stardock will show it some love soon
but thanks everyone for reply kinda madning to have icons jumping all around