Don't get mad IR WB6 is in beta yet,
Thanks Dani for looking at it...I'm not using any of the beta software yet.

Mad?mad you say?I guess I was...very.Struggling with the many quirks over the years and an angry toothache plus one more design ruining bug was too much.
The background image replaces the titlebar area. It does not blend against it.
So in this skin you would want to make the bottom part of your image the same as the titlebar.
In the past Neil that is exactly what I would do...cut the element whole out of the background and blend it into the titlebar.I couldnt do that this time because the
titlebar isnt identical from one end to the other.So yes,it needs to blend(as would just about any graphic in a skin...taskbar buttons do it.
Turns out I was wrong about the left and right content margins...they were not coming from the regular frames...it only appeared that way because they were about 20 freakin pixels off...so a bit of hoop jumping and they did work.
Text and backing alignment was way crazy too...had to use the vertical content margins for the titlebar for the text first(as usual),then use negative top content margins to move the backing DOWN?!
I tried a graphic that was the same size as the titlebar but it wouldnt align properly(and cut out a larger chunk)
So yeah,I was angry...2 days so far on a single skin element...should have been 20 minutes.
My tooth isnt hurting so much right now so I'm going to say thanks for the help before I go off again.