theological quips like that are best kept out of this forum, please.
Not withstanding the quality of Danielost's remark i would say that yes it is your thread, fair enough but it is not your forum.
my only problem is others have brought up god and none of them were told to stop. at least some of them weren't.
phew, here goes guys.
here's the short version:
argue not concerning God. i'm not saying "don't use the G-word," i'm saying not to attack others' beliefs directly.
the long version.
some of this may be re-cap, but i'm re-capping for Mystikmind since he wasn't here for earlier episodes. i'll write about people other than myself in the third person, to remain clear.
i guess i'll start by saying that i loathe censorship. it's come up before that other participants don't wish to see this discussion degenerate into "another religious thread", and i agree. it's not that i don't enjoy a good discussion about religion, it's just that i think it's almost impossible to have a
good discussion about religion. people are too personally invested, and any productive discussion that moves into new sub-topics tends to turn into circular arguments amounting to "you're wrong and i'm right," and "well i'm rubber and you're glue."
my biggest goal is to keep this discussion vibrant and productive (by 'productive' i mean that people continue to inject new ideas and learn, even if it can't be avoided that some old ideas are re-hashed and such). i don't think anyone has to avoid religion entirely to remain respectful, but it's tricky.
so here's an example. in reply #508, Mystickmind started, "Well if you believe the bible as i do..." Here, "if" and "as i do" show a great deal of respect for other beliefs; they serve to make the statement relative and reflexive. i think it's a
good thing in this case that he brought up his belief in the bible: it helped make his subsequent statements and ponderings more clear. i believe he implied a request from others for more knowledge that he didn't have, to correct his own misunderstandings and ultimately to give him even more to ponder about.
in #518, when danielost said "and according to someone it was all an accident", it was dismissive to those "someones". that may have not been his intention, but when you don't take more care about the words you use his intentions and points can be lost (especially on the internet, when the 90% of communication which is non-literal is mostly lost and only at best emulated).
it's not as simple as god/no god. a while back, someone else left a quip, was in Vinraith?, about why something so obviously meant there was no god. and i asked him not to make comments like that.
i ask no one to hide their own beliefs, or anything about themselves for that matter (except perhaps unsightly growths), and i feel sad when they do. i do ask everyone to respect each other, beliefs and all. i know what it's like to believe, in every sense of the word, in your heart of hearts, that your belief is right. what i'm asking participants then is to accept that their belief is one among many, regardless of whether it's the right belief or not, and to show other people, at least here in this forum i started, basic respect -- i'm not even aiming for fraternal love or anything so high-minded. i think that's manageable and reasonable (and i might add, productive to learning of all kinds), and i think anyone capable enough to use the internet is capable enough to discern and use the basic signs and signals of mutual respect. speaking from personal experience, it takes only a little bit of energy, and it brings great returns.
there are no ultimatums to my requests; they are merely requests made magnanimously. with anything short of spamming or utterly offesnive profanity, i frankly lack the energy and drive to say 'told you so' to use any means but words. words are cheap.
and danielost, i'm sorry if you feel picked on. had anyone replied to Mystickmind's "if you believe in the Bible as i do" with something insulting to his beliefs, i would have just as quickly asked that person to leave that kind of talk elsewhere. i hope this difference is clear enough to understand. if you'd have just said something more like "and that's one of the reasons i believe in the bible" to the talk about genetics, it would have been totally fine, harmless, and not in the least bit "hiding who you are." but instead you commented in a dismissive way about
others' beliefs - if you're really the type of person who looks down on others so harshly for different beliefs, and if nothing else can't keep it under control in here -- well, i don't believe that's true in the first place, so i won't end that sentence.