Why not make the text white or light gray?
XP is tricky.. some areas u cant change text color, you have to balance all colors in all areas with respect to how its going to affect elements elsewhere. SOme areas of windows and of many apps are hardcoded with Black text.. so basically when putting a WB together you have to balance ur use of colors very carefully.
If folks are seeing it as I do..then they should have no problem. I have to skin as I see it not how other folks see it. I guess its boils down to individual preferences, settings and focal perception. I dont think I or my friend are wrong, Its the old addage , U cant please everyone....short of making a light and a dark version.